The List
People always told me that some birthdays have an impact on you. And I get it.
We turn 16 - In Germany we're old enough to participate in voting for local or communal decisions, drink beer and wine and go into the first bars and clubs.
We turn 18 - finally we're overage, grown-ups, we are allowed to vote, we can drive a car, we can do everything on our own.
We turn 21 - we know that now we're also overage in the USA and there are pretty much no restrictions for us anymore whatsoever. Finally we're feeling free.
Somewhere in between 18 to twenty-something we move out of home and start feeling independent.
And then we turn 25. When I turned 16, 18 (not so much anymore when I turned 21) I thought by the age of 25 I'd have my life figured out. I'd know what I want, who I am, where I will be. I'd be in a long-term relationship looking to build a family a few years later and settle down.
But around the time I turned 25 I realized - I have barely anything figured out.
A few things I know. I have a degree in a job I love, but I don't know where I will be.
Start family-planning because you're getting "old" and settling down? Building a house, planting a tree? I'm starting to realize that's what society expects from women. But I doubt it's me.
Someone once told me I need a summer home, just a place to plan my next adventure.
And right now - That's who I am. I want to travel, I want to discover new places as long as I can.
Of course our goals and desires shift every once in a while. Five years from now we won't be the same persons, we learn and grow everyday, which is another priority of mine.
So a bucket list doesn't seem appropriate, since you'll never complete all of it, and in the end still will be fine with that because your goals are not the same as the ones when you were 20.
But it helps me to keep focused on what I want, it's an inspiration for me to keep longing for my goals.
#Countries
Europe
- Norway
- Sweden
- Finland
- Denmark
- Austria
- Italy
- Switzerland
- Netherlands
- Belgium
- Czech Republic
- Ireland
- Iceland
- United Kingdom
- Vatican City
- Hungary
- Croatia
- Montenegro
- Estonia
- Lithuania
- Latvia
- France
- Spain
- Greece
- Portugal
- Macedonia
- Poland
- Vietnam
- Thailand
- India
- Japan
- Indonesia
- Laos
- Cambodia
- Myanmar
- China
- Turkey
- Israel
- Malaysia
- Nepal
- Mongolia
- Philippines
- Tanzania
- Kenia
- Morocco
- Namibia
- Mozambique
- Swaziland
- South Africa
- Botswana
- Egypt
- Gambia
- Ghana
- Madagascar
- Uganda
- Zimbabwe
- Canada
- Bahamas
- United States
- Puerto Rico
- Belize
- Costa Rica
- Cuba
- Guatemala
- El Salvador
- México
- Jamaica
- Nicaragua
- Bolivia
- Chile
- Ecuador
- Brazil
- Argentinia
- Columbia
- Peru
- Venezuela
- New Zealand
- Australia
- Papua Neuguinea
#CitiesWorldwide
- Berlin
- London
- Dublin
- Rome
- Barcelona
- Madrid
- Paris
- Tokio
- Seoul
- Istanbul
- Naples
- Rio de Janeiro
- HongKong
- Cape Town
#CitiesUSA
- New York
- San Francisco
- Los Angeles
- Las Vegas
- Miami
- Chicago
- New Orleans
- Washington DC
- Nashville
- Boston
- Seattle
#SpecialPlaces
- Visit all continents
- Hike in a rainforest
- Take a walk on the Chinese wall
- See the Hobbit houses at the set of LotR in New Zealand
- Visit Disney World in Florida
- See a kangaroo in Australia
- Celebrate the Dia des los muertos in México
- View New York's skyline from a rooftop
- Celebrate 4th of July in America (2015) (2016)
- Ride a gondola in Venice
- Full Moon Party in Thailand
- See an active geyser
- Get photobombed by a llama at Machu Picchu in Peru
- Swing at "The Edge of the World" in Ecuador
- Hike to Havasupai Falls
- Drive a part of the historic route 66
- Visit the Eiffel Tower in Paris
- Walk the Camino de Santiago in Spain
- Victoria Falls in Zambia / Zimbabwe
- Rocket launch at the Kennedy Space Center
- Niagara Falls in Canada
- See a broadway show in New York
- Holi-Festival in India
- Platform 9 3/4 at King's Cross (rather disappointing!)
- Angkor Wat in Cambodia
- Snorkel or dive at the Great Barrier Reef
- Drink Guinness in Ireland
- Mardi Gras in New Orleans
- Akropolis in Greece
- Ride a red bus in London
- See the Big Five in Africa
#Activities
- Plan a journey and travel alone
- Wilderness camping
- Visit as many National Parks as possible
- Visit a music festival
- Ride through the desert on a camel's back
- Holi-Festival
- Helicopter Ride
- Take a ride in a hot air balloon over a breathtaking place
- Learn Spanish again
- Learn French again
- Learn a whole new language
- See the northern lights
- A backpacking-tour
- Shower under a waterfall
- Swing into the water with a liana
- Swim in an underwater cave
- Swim with dolphins
- Go for a swim at the crack of dawn
- Party until the sun comes up
- Husky sleigh ride
- Walk under a roof of flower petals
- Organize a big event
- Do a roadtrip
- See bioluminescence
- Campfire at the beach
- A kayak tour at night
- Spend New Year's Eve abroad
- Play laser tag
- Play paintball
#Art
- Visit the Louvre
- See Mona Lisa
- Florence
- See an opera
- Michelangelos masterpieces in the sixteenth chapel in Vatican City
- Museum of Modern Arts in New York
- MET in New York
- Dalí museum in Berlin
- Dalí museum in St. Petersburg
#Outdoors
- Kayaking
- Skydiving
- Zip Lining
- Yoga
- Run a half marathon
- Hiking
- Climbing
- Paragliding
- Jetski ride
- Roadtrip on a motorbike
- Whitewater rafting
#LifeHappens
- Graduate
- Be happy
- Publish a text
- Publish a photo
- Find a job that I love
- Pause for a moment and realize that everything is perfect
- Visit the wedding of good friends
- Teach a child something new
- Live abroad for a while... (recap 6 months)
- ... and experience all the feelings after coming back
- Sleep in the sky lodge in Peru
- Sleep in a treehouse
- Sleep at the beach
- Sleep in a hammock
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